Sunday, January 03, 2010

Jumpla toh Sumpla*

I landed on campus for the fourth semester on the 17th of December and straight away had a couple of people asking me about plans for new year eve. That led to a lot of Goa vs. partying vs. other locations contemplation over the next 10 days. The fact that it was a large group of people made things that much harder. If somebody had cash crunch, somebody else had issues with crowded places. If somebody wanted a secluded beach, somebody else wanted a mad party to dance.

Since 3rd standard I may have sucked at 'initiative', but travel is not part of that set. Friends too have started expecting me to explore Google Maps and come up with a plan. I could not have let them down. A zillion tabs with Maharashtra all over them, multiple options, feasibility studies, lots of phone calls, and I had a plan for three days. Then began the process of people backing out. People who? Closest friends. So the custom of me getting pissed also happened. But nothing comes between me and travelling. My planning had reached the point where I would have set out alone too. But it did not get that bad. The now-travel buddies, Swetha and Priyam were there. With them, Ruhi and Debanjana were the other two single girls. Kausik Dadu Misra was always keen on joining us. With him was his pretty girlfriend, Shagun. The problem was that he was the only guy with all of us girls. So he found Ranjan walking into his classroom and asked him to come along. With Ranjan came his hot girlfriend Vinaya. Ridhima and Bhavya contemplated till five hours before leaving Pune, but finally did join us.

We were 11 of us. Initially a Tavera/Innova was planned. Now two cars would have raised costs way too much. Right then Ridhima came up with the brilliant idea of hiring a Tempo Traveller. That led to a round of calls and more calls all over Pune and finally reaching a decent Rs 12/- per km. After an insane amount of browsing, the Internet also helped me find an affordable lodge for our first night. We could have set out without any bookings for stay had it not been the year-end. But it would have been risky, especially with 11 people. Therefore, god bless a degree of organised information on the Web!

The plan? A couple of beaches, a dam, a ferry ride, a fort, music, dance, alcohol, and a birthday celebration in the Ratnagiri district of Maharashtra.

On 30th morning, we left campus at 5:45 a.m. First we went to Koregaon Park to pick Ridhima and Bhavya. Then drove back out to NH4 towards Karad. As always, driving out of Pune was fun. The roads are great, and the scenery beautiful. Around 9:30 a.m., before getting off the highway, we stopped for some idli sambhar and chai at a dhaba. From Karad we turned right on SH 78 towards Chiplun. About 50 kms from there was our first stop - the Koyna Dam. When we reached there, instead of going to a certain garden to view the dam, we went for a boat ride instead. The brief given to us there was that the dam was the second largest after Bhakra Nangal. Before that, my idiotic fear of losing balance while climbing on to the boat led to complete concentration on the feet and me ramming my head real hard in the iron rod on top. Broken sunglasses that were resting on my head and a massive bump, and I was ready to sail!

The school bus we got instead of a real tempo traveller

Mister slept through the entire drive on the first day



Our first toll point


The breakfast point


I have no clue what I was talking so animatedly about


Priyam, our photo-documenter clicked! :-)

Our bank with Dadu

Happy after food :D

We decided to have lunch at Koyna itself, instead of stopping again at Chiplun before getting to Guhagar, our destination for the day. We paid an entry fee for the complex, but the food was worth it. Authentic local taste, and very filling. I, of course, stuck to a light dosa. Had no intentions of making my travel painful even one bit. Morning also saw me having my idlis with sugar instead of sambhar.

Swetha, at Koyna
Ridhima, Vinaya, Swetha, Debanjana, Ruhi, Me, and the sunglasses I broke

The boat we rode on



Koyna was also the first tryst with wilderness for some relief work. Retrospecting about Aurangabad bus station, I was only proud about the past. Could not get myself to bear the torture again.

From Koyna, we drove straight to Guhagar. That stretch got tiring for everyone - driving in the ghats right after a meal is never fun. And anyway we had been on the road for over 6 hours. We reached Guhagar around 4:15 p.m. The distance was not as much, but being on a bus killed our speed quite a bit. So much so that trance playing in the bus was sounding funny as our speed did not match that of the music.

SH 78


Transmission grids and my ABB moment!

The rooms at Manas Lodge were decent. And at that point, we only needed them to change. Within 30 minutes, nine out of 11 of us were on the beach. Two people went missing. They insist they were on the other end of the beach. The rest of us have a slightly different take on what that couple was up to. :P



Sand, water, madness, a beautiful sunset, and a terrible cramp later, I was out of the water. Following that was some delicious bhel puri and yumm tea on the beach itself. A long bath, a long call to the U.S., a long wait at a popular restaurant for dinner, and I sat for one of the crappiest meals of my life at Hotel Annapurna. So much for being nice to people who want to eat fish and prawns, and all of that! I ate rice with pickle. :|

Swetha and Ruhi went for a camel ride on the beach


Shagun is the only girl missing from this photograph

Preetam!!

During our wait outside the restaurant | I am sitting in the middle | Concentrating on the challenge Ranjan posed at me - a tiny game of putting magnetic balls in slots | I won! Ha!!

At the restaurant also happened something that kinda ticked me off. Some people wanted to skip the Jaigad Fort next morning and hit the beach straight. And they managed 'majority vote'. But you know me. Even though I did mention at that point itself that I don't like the idea, the next morning I was willing to do my own little detour if everybody wanted to go straight. The S.T. bus stand was right opposite our hotel, and I went there to check what was the best way to get there. But that morning my luck was not with me. First my 18-55 lens kinda conked off, and then I got to know that I would have had to change three buses to get to the fort. So I was forced to give up the idea, and sat on our bus with a straight face.

We were going to Ganpatipule, where one of Ridhima's distant uncles had a resort. The resort was actually in Malgund, the beach adjacent to Ganpatipule. It was such a beautiful place with such pretty cottages that I felt I could live there forever. The good thing that happened that time though was that six other people were keen on the fort again. So we dropped our friends at the beach, and drove out to the Jaigad Fort.


Ridhima and Bhavya fixing things at Uncle's resort :P

Our sea-facing cottages


The view from the cottages

The singletons' cottage - Five of us girls stayed here

En route, Balaji chips came to our rescue. We had not had breakfast or lunch, and were all starving in the crazy heat!! It was just a half hour drive from the beach. The fort was more of a fun point of the trip than a visual treat, but absolutely no regrets for being stubborn about going there. Those two hours were the funniest of the day - what with all of us laughing our guts out!

The remains at Jaigad Fort


The fort is located at the end point of a peninsula in Ratnagiri, and the view from all sides was terrific! It may have belonged to Shivaji, but for Ruhi and me it was Vikram Jaisingh Rathore's. He's an imaginary, hot man from history.
We also saw the Jindals' new power plant coming up there, and the unfortunate crap that was being offloaded into the sea as well.

Good lunch at the resort and a quiet nap later, I was in water again. I spent the first half hour alone. Played with little birdies, made friends with water, sang mad songs, and felt like the most beautiful thing on earth when the sun's rays were sparkling on the water and on me alike. How I wished there was somebody who appreciated the moment with his camera at that point!

Joined the rest of the guys later to see yet another mesmerising sunset. It was a full moon night, so the moment the sun set in, a beautiful moon rose from the other side. Priyam, Swetha and I realised that the three of us saw the last sunrise and the last sunset of the year together. There, all of us decided that we'll get together for 2010's last sunset as well. Let's see how many of us manage to keep the pact.

Sunrise at Guhagar Beach

1st of Jan was Ranjan's birthday. So the night was a double party. We somehow managed to get something that came close to a cake, but none of us even tasted it. We did the best that could have been done with that thing - smashed it on his face!

The night was long and lots of fun. Everyone got high, and talked trash endlessly. Complete entertainment - by everyone, for everyone. We had our own bonfire and a table full of food. We had our own music too, but our neighbours' speakers were too huge and loud. So we danced to their music instead. They were 'neech kameenas', and most of us were drunk girls, so the boys with us were a little worried most of the time. But thankfully, it turned out to be an uneventful, rather dramatic, fun night!

Cheers!

And there went Vinaya!!!


:D

I cracked a mean joke

We decided to sleep around 3:00 a.m. Slept peacefully and woke up to the sound and view of the sea - could not have been any better.

We left Malgund around noon. Our driver acted idiotic right when we thought that the trip was perfect. He took NH 17 instead of NH 4. 11 hours of winding roads in the ghats left us all cranky and irritable. Ridhima puked 11x17 times. Or maybe more. So she went straight to the hospital. The rest of us ate at McDonald's and reached campus around 11:30 p.m.

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Highlights of the trip:

# 95% of the roads were so so smooth that we were all happily surprised.

Road to Ganpatipule

# At every single fork in the road in the remotest areas, we found somebody to give us directions.

# Potty was the most talked-about thing thanks to Priyam and Kausik.

# I broke my sunglasses, and my 18-55 seems to have forgotten how to focus in the auto-focus mode. :|

# Songs of the trip - Tera hone laga hoon and bahon mein dale bahein bahein from Ajab Prem ki Gazab Kahani. All of us hated the songs beyond belief, but played and sang them so many times that it actually became funny by the end!

Teraaaa.... hone laga hoooon...

# The area is famous for its alphonso magoes. But since this was not the right season, we managed mango pulp which I believe was truly the second best thing after real mangoes!

# The state highways had caution messages written in Marathi at regular intervals. The best of the lot: 'jaagte raho, kal ho na ho', and 'zompla to sompla'. The second one meaning that you'll die if you sleep off.

*The title of the post got derived from here. Actually, this is what the trip has been christened thanks to the copy guy, Ranjan. We were at the Rai-Bhatgaon Bridge over the Jaigad Creek when he suddenly came up with 'jump-la toh sumpla'. 11 people anyway means mad, endless laughter. So three days later, we're still laughing about it. Therefore, aptly naming all emails/photo albums/ blog posts about this trip Jumpla toh Sumpla.

Ruhi and Ranjan just before the Sampla moment

Dinesh Bhau, our driver

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The people:

Priyam aka Pottin thanks to all her potty talks with detailed descriptions.

Ruhi aka Bhootana because she found all things at the Fort bhootana (ghostly). Even the men giving us directions on the roads.

Vinaya aka Setbaaj because that is what a casanova is called in the Jamshedpur lingo (Ranjana and Kausik hail from there). She got drunk and flirted with most other girls on the trip.

Cabaret Queen and Setbaaj

Kausik aka Johnny Walker. He kept going on 'walks' with his new girlfriend.

Ranjan aka Sampla. You know the story.

Bhavya aka Dil Saaf - he got high and all he talked about then was having a saaf dil.

Shagun aka Bhaala - We were laughing and rolling over some joke that Ranjan cracked about weapons at the fort. In the end, she innocently asked, 'what is a bhaala?'. Ufff!!!!

Aarbee aka Bumpy - You know the boat story. There were other instances of me hitting my head here and there. Therefore.

Ridhima aka Pukey - Poor thing has a weak liver. She puked way too much on the way back.

Debanjana aka Chhoto Manoos - just what happens to the smallest person in a group!



Swetha aka Ma Ch*** - She learnt the cuss words from Bhavya. He taught her how to use them at the end of every sentence.

She was also the Cabaret Queen for ALL the mad solo dances she did around the bonfire after getting drunk.

Ufff! You had to be there to witness the entire dance routine!!

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The travel:

Pune-Karad on NH 4.
Karad - Koyna - Chiplun - Guhagar on SH 78.
Ganpatipule - Chiplun - Pune ... better would be NH 4. NH 17 is not recommended for people who have motion sickness. Also, it is not recommended for a night drive - ghats and jungles without lights.



Stay at Guhagar: Manas Lodge for Rs 520 a night, and Rs 50 for an extra bed. There are fancy luxury resorts too.
The snacks available at the beach should not be missed.
Non-veg food available only at Hotel Annapoorna and one other hotel. Good fish and prawns, not so good chicken stuff apparently. But please think about your veggie friends too.


Stay at Ganpatipule: There are LOTS of hotels - luxury and affordable. We paid Rs 1500 for our sea-facing cottages, and Rs 1000 for the ones that were about 100 metres away (Dariya Sarang Hotel). But these are peak season rates. I am sure it would be cheaper at other times.

The tempo traveller cost us Rs 12/- per km for a minimum of 300 kms a day. Do your research with a few travel companies. You can easily get Rs 11 or even 10 during off season.

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Why I am the queen? When planning, I estimated the per head cost to be somewhere around Rs 2450. And I was bang on! :D :D



We live in a place called Lavale (lɑːvleɪ). I happened to innocently mention that before getting here I used to think it is pronounced as Lavaal (lä-väl). Everyone laughed, and the moment they got over it, we came across this building. :|


The couple that often went missing

Pukey with Bhavya when she was ok



P.S. - Everyone on the trip contributed towards photo-documentation of this blog post.

P.P.S - I am the happiest thing on earth post this trip.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

White Sand

See you next year! I'm off to Ratnagiri. :-)

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Personality Bites

This past year brought with it a new revelation. Something that has a strange paradox in the centre.
About eight years ago, somebody told me that I am a little too approachable. That people find it easy to come to me and speak their mind, and that isn't always a good thing because at times I end up getting hurt/offended in the process. I agreed, but did not know what to do to change things.
After all these years, I am standing at the other extreme end of approachability. My cynicism, insecurities, arrogance, and emotional baggage coupled with this thought at the back of my mind made me what I am today.
There were innumerable instances where directly or indirectly I was informed that people are 'scared' of me. And not in a very positive way. I like it if I think of it as something that makes people think twice before saying something to me. But then, if that's something that makes so many people have a negative perception of me, I am not too sure if it's such a great thing.
From where I stand today, my 23 years tell me that it's ok if this is the case. I've seen my mom be all that I am not anymore. It's sure brought her a lot of appreciation and love from people outside of her immediate circle, but then it has brought more hurt too. I like to believe that people who know me see the person that I am beyond this outer crust. If I need a life-changing, attitude-changing humbling experience to get out of this mode, I can't say. Or if this post becomes redundant by the time I am 30 or something, only time will tell.

Friday, December 25, 2009

The Parle G Boy!

There is a traditional, little, old-school boy in my college here. He's one of the papas of the batch - disciplined, wakes up early, high on values, takes care of drunk friends, and so on.
His maternal grandparents live in Delhi, so right from the beginning he seems to find it easy to relate to a few of us Punju girls from Delhi. What with mamaji taking him around west Delhi's best chaat stalls on his scooter, and us Dilli girls always on the lookout for good chaat in this land!
He is also sweet enough to follow my blog such that he opens the page in the same breath as his gmail, ibnlive, and afaqs.


It's his birthday today. Last year I forgot to wish him. Today too, I saw him in the morning and didn't wish again. However, I am hoping this might make up for the mistake made.

Oh, I forgot to mention the most important thing - if you want to see somebody obsess about snakes and take care of them too - meet our boy! The birthday boy! Akshay Brijkrishan. Mind you, that's a Kashmiri Brijkrishan. Not a south Indian Brijkrishnan that I mistakenly made him during the first couple of weeks of college.


Wednesday, December 23, 2009

'Pool of Watery Images'

The previous post made me realise that most of my outings this year were water-related. The almost-rough monsoon waves of the Arabian Sea, the mighty Ganga, the only reservoir meeting normal capacity levels this year - Khadakvasla Dam, cold water at Tamhini Ghat, and the incredibly serene Mulshi Lake. The one thing that links all these trips for me is rain. While the trip to Rishikesh in May saw random summer rain, all other trips were made in the Western Ghats and around the Konkan belt during the monsoons between June and August. The drawback is the unexciting sky in pictures that I managed between any given two spells of rain.

I am still to see a white sand beach. If things work out fine, I might visit one before the end of this year. Keeping fingers crossed!


It took time learning how to handle an approaching wave

Srivardhan was a clay soil beach

It stopped raining towards the end of day and all of us went almost crazy with our cameras

A group of fisherman passed by in the evening


This was Khadakvasla. Rains were at their heaviest worst. And so was the traffic. I only managed to click from inside our moving car.



The cloud cover which was more of a carpet at the Sinhagarh Fort that I visited the same day

Mulshi Lake was the most spontaneous and fun drive ever. Planned and executed in a snap, this was a perfect little trip I managed to be part of!


And did I have fun or what!



My first petrified dip in the ice-cold water at Rishikesh, and the water went up my nose. :|



And the 23rd birthday at Tamhini Ghat with friends!



I hope I manage to continue this new beginning over the coming years as well.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

You've Seen This Before

While there is still close to a week left for the year to end, I want to write about the year that has almost gone by because I have started making my new year eve plans. So let's get to the custom of listing it all out.

# Life's second moment of hysteria happened early this year. More emotional stress than I could handle.

# Travelled to Jamshedpur from Pune to meet Shady who used to be

# Met Subhadip in Kolkata

# Started playing badminton after many years

# Travel ventures began with Ajanta and Ellora. And I covered everything from rock sculptures and paintings to river rafting in the mountains to frolicking on a beach on a rainy day to playing under waterfalls in the hills to a quiet lakeside evening to a drive to a beautiful dam followed by an awesome fort as well. A tiny wildlife sanctuary is on my list too. :-)

- So it was a first view of the sea
- A first dip in a river
- A first lakeside moment
- A first waterfall experience
- A first of a dam during rains
- A first walk on clouds in a fort
- AND a first of the wildlife

# Travel to Chandigarh to meet grandparents is definitely a separate point

# Holi brought my first rain dance experience

# Break-up happened and I became my cynical worst after that

# Got the fourth piercings in the ears

# Experienced working with a chauvinist

# It was one of the most volatile years of friendships

# I bought my first dress

# Got drunk for the first time

# Ran a marathon

# Bhaiya got engaged!
# Bought the perfect red saree I had dreamt of for a decade, for bhaiya's wedding
# More of ultrasounds and related crap

# Siddhartha passed away

# Bought a new lens with my own money

# Invested in a photograph for a good cause

# Made a perfect wall

# Dev D's music was one the biggest forms of madness ever!

# And so was Delhi 6

# Missed a flight

# Lived the thrill of having a Costa Coffee in Pune for the longest time!

# I contested and lost elections in college

# Experienced guilt like never before

# My first plant died

# Did political PR

# Voted in general elections for the first time

# Watched somebody I loved fall in love with someone else. Twice over.

# Made a little trip on Delhi's local trains

# Watched way too many movies on my laptop

# Got associated with one of the biggest brands in the world

# Attended a santoor vadan concert of Rahul Sharma's

# Saw Shah Rukh Khan :P

# Started loving peanut butter

# Sinus pains went beyond tolerance levels

# Had a man tell me I'm perfect

# Fell out of love with Nike for Woman

# Watched theatre

# Became more rude, arrogant and intolerant

# Broke my laptop's keypad in anger

# Laughed through many days too.

I am sure I am forgetting more things. I'll come back and update this list. Until then, spend some time in writing out comments. :D

Monday, December 14, 2009

Dormancy and the Dhol

The activity (or the lack of it) on this page over the last two months is making me feel like I have aged a little too much for the kind of time span we are talking about. Things might change once I get back to Pune, I don't know. Let's wait for that - just another three days. Maybe it's just this overwhelming pace of life that has kept me away from updating.

As of now, the latest and most interesting update is that my brother is now engaged. I have waited for this occasion for the longest time. I think I was 14 years old ever since I have been planning to look pretty on his wedding. Of course, the marriage changes the family's dynamics too, but that is still a couple of months away.

So I did the whole mehandi, earrings, and pretty clothes jazz over the past few days. I was even forced to buy gold-coloured shoes and wear make-up. Well, what I did to my face apparently does not qualify as make-up, but I think it was just about fine. Especially because it does something to my stomach just the way sequins do. And I swear I have seen enough shiny wedding-y clothes, shoes and bags which look good minus any sequins. Yes, fancy things are made for me too. :D

Apart from all that, I think there is a general issue with some 'nice' men. They don't seem to know how to handle women-related issues in their head. I won't generalise about the type (of men or situations), but everyone has some issue or the other. It's pretty incredible. I think credit also goes to women like me who always seem to attract the wrong kind of men (wrong for us, nice in general - yes, the corporate training also taught me how to be more politically correct).

On a lot more serious note, now I am pretty clear about the kind of job and the kind of organisation I want to join once I finish college. The million dollar question, however, remains that who is willing to hire me!

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Trivia: Audioslave should feel happy to be owning my first ever cellphone ringtone in six years. That does not mean that I have stopped hating the concept of ringtones. Sometimes life's complusions are plain weird.

Trivia 2: 'Weird' and 'stuff' have been the two most controversial words - independently and together - of the past two months. The irony of it has also been factored in.

Trivia 3: Ranbir Kapoor in Rocket Singh is the hottest thing I have seen in the longest time! Totally reminds of the sardar I had a crush on in WWW! Completely adorable and handsome!!! :D

Friday, December 04, 2009

The Pink Ball

Getting to work on sustainability affairs for my present organisation.
Recently organised throwball matches for the girls of a government school adopted by us.

The experience was absolutely brilliant!

The 10th standard girls who won the first match